Do anyone think I was born to late?
Monday, August 30th, 2010 at
9:34 am
My mother gave birth to me when she was 45 year old, and right now I’m 22 year old and also my mother died from rheumatoid arthritis at the age of 66 year old back in March of this year I wish she could of live long enough to see my 3rd child who is now 2 month old.
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No everything happens in its own time, your mother is watching you and your kids now. i know its hard that your baby wont meet her but you can teach your baby about grandma as she grows up. GOOD LUCK and God bless
sorry for your loss.
no i dont think so.. maybe in terms of her seeing your children grow up etc etc.. i can see why you think you were born late..
my little sister was born when my mum was 41.. and she is now 52, so yeh, i dont really think it matters..
My mother died when I was 14 and saw none of my kids. My dad died when I was pregnant with my 3rd and last baby. At least the older two have pictures with him.
No……I’m sure your mom is very happy and is watching you and her beautiful grandchild. Life has its ways. Sometimes it unfair to others. I’m sure your children love her a lot. Even though she is not physically with you guys, she will always be in your hearts.
I’m so sorry to hear about your mom died. 22 is very young to lose your mom, and I can somewhat relate. I lost my mom when I was 30. She was 40 when I was born. (My dad also died when I was 14.) I’m in my fifties now and over the past twenty-some years, I had at times felt sad that most of my friends still had their parents and talked about different things they did with them or advice their parents gave to them. More recently though, I have heard from the same friends how they are now caring for their parents who are aging. Some have Alhzeimer’s, some have had strokes and don’t recognize their own children, and so on. It must be terribly hard for them to see their parents gradually getting weaker or less able mentally (although, yes, if I were them, I would still want to be there for my folks so very, very much). Still, what I’m saying is that there are always good sides and not so good sides to everyone’s situation.
I can tell you one thing: when my mother and father were alive, they were the best parents in the whole wide world, and sometimes it seemed that my brother’s, sister’s, and my friends preferred to spend time sitting and talking with our folks over us kids!
My mother didn’t live to see my youngest two children who are now almost grown. The funny thing is that my youngest daughter feels as though she knew my mom thanks to my many stories about her over the years, and this same daughter, as she grows, seems to be turning into someone very much like my mother! It’s kind of like “my best friend” has returned.
I will say though that losing my mom was one of the hardest things I ever went through, and yes, I still miss her so much to this day. I am very close to all of my five kids though, and my relationship with them has been a big benefit to me. I hope your young family will do the same for you. Look for the miracles, because they do exist.